Christmas is fast approaching – that time of year when it is expected that you spend money you haven’t got to buy gifts that other people don’t need or want. I can hear the booing and calls of ‘Baa Humbug!’, but I honestly believe that this is true. I am not a religious person, but I feel that we have moved a long way from the real meaning of this time of year. There is so much pressure on us to go mad, spend lots of money and eat until we pop. But I truly believe that Christmas is optional or at least all of this excess is.
If I ruled the world I would make Christmas like the Olympics – just once every four years. I am not against the time that we are given off over the festive period, as this enables families to spend time together, but often the weather isn’t good and we all just eat too much and then slump in front of the TV for hours. I would rather have the time off when the weather is better, but as I don’t make the rules here are some ideas for moderating the excess that is shortly to come…
Just buy for the children
This is what we have done in my family for years. Once we all got jobs my mum suggested that we stopped giving presents to each other as we could all buy something for ourselves whenever we wanted to do so. I first met Mr Simple, fifteen years ago and he and his parents were still buying presents for each other. When his mother learnt that we no longer did that in my family she agreed that it was a good idea and so now they are ‘present-less’ at Christmas as well.
Keep the cost of each present to under £5 or £10
If you can’t survive the festive season without having several beautifully wrapped packages to open then keep the budget low by limiting spending on each present. There are Secret Santa schemes for several groups that I belong to and there is always a limit to cost of the gift.
Pick one adult, like Secret Santa, and buy for them
My physiotherapist mentioned this to me recently. He is part of a large sibling group, so instead of everyone buying for everyone else, they just buy a present for one of their brothers or sisters and obviously only receive one present. In this way it could be that although you get one present, it may be of more value and therefore something nicer than the several pairs of socks or smellies.
Give the money you would have spent to a charity
If you decide not to do presents, but still want to give something to someone, then give some money to your chosen charity. Find something close to your heart or maybe linked to Christmas, such as one that provides food or shelter to homeless people during this time.
Invest the money
Prepare for Christmas 2020
Once the madness is over go shopping and buy cards, wrapping paper, etc. for next year as it will all be on sale at discount prices.
Share the cooking
Instead of one person taking all the responsibility for cooking, share it around and get someone to bring the starter, someone else the dessert, others mince pies, cakes, etc. Just let the host cook the main course, which will be the hardest meal to transport. There may be people who aren’t so good at cooking, but give them something simple to make, or maybe they can just bring the treats such as chocolates, crisps, nuts, etc.
So there we are, a few ways to save time and money at Christmas and hopefully make it all a bit less stressful and a bit less expensive. Whatever you’re planning to do over the festive season I hope have a lovely break.