December Review

Well Christmas is finally over and life will soon be getting back to normal – hooray! I’m sorry to be a bit baa humbug, but I am not a lover of Christmas. I think that there are a lot of expectations placed on us about spending money, attending events and eating platefuls of stodge. Although in many ways I look forward to the opportunity to indulge, I must admit that after eating crap for a week, I usually end up feeling like crap.

I was lucky enough to win a Christmas hamper in a local raffle

As well as the usual increased consumption of food over the festive period I was lucky enough to win a hamper in a local raffle. I say lucky, but the nature of hampers are that they contain food that keeps i.e. lots of high sugar carbohydrates. The cupboard is still filled with cake, biscuits and mince pies. On top of this my mother gave us some cake and every year Mr Simple’s mother makes him a fruit cake for his birthday, which is in January. Included in the hamper was a voucher from a neighbour to make a cake for us. Fortunately it lasts for the year so I think that I’ll wait a few months until I ask for this.

There have been the usual Christmas meals through out the month, although I didn’t spend an awful lot of money as most of them had been paid for in advance. The location of my office meal moved to the nearest city and I can’t say that it’s something that I want to repeat. I enjoyed seeing everyone, but it was a bit of a trek and parking cost us £20 for four hours. Fortunately there were four passengers and so we split the cost between us.

I suggested that a lunch time meal might be an option for next year and as a result I have been given the task of organising it in 2020. It will probably be in a local pub, so that we don’t have to travel far. I am much more of a lunch person as going to bed on a full stomach often means a sleepless night. I love a leisurely lunch where the effects of too much food and wine will have worn off by the time I go to bed.  

Tablet and Alexa
Some technology appears to exist just to get us to spend money

The month started with catching up with one of Mr Simple’s ex-colleagues. She has moved out of the city and now lives closer to us. She invited us round for Sunday afternoon tea and cake, which was lovely.

It was an eye opener to see all of the various gadgets that she possesses. Mr Simple and I are not technophobes, but we don’t go out of our way to update our home with the latest devices. She has an Alexa, but what was more interesting was the individual radiator devices which connect to your WiFi. According to her you can turn each radiator down individually, which in our house is achieved through turning a valve on the radiator. Apparently you can also turn your heating on before you get home using your smartphone. Again, in our house, that’s called a timer.

I know I sound like a luddite, but I do wonder whether many of these ideas are just gimmicks to get you to spend your money and are just changing a system that already works perfectly well for the sake of change.

The two other small social events were drinks and nibbles at a neighbour’s house and a meal out with another of Mr Simple’s ex-colleagues who is moving to London. The meal cost me nothing as Mr Simple paid. This was a treat for helping him put up coving in the dining room. He had had two quotes for plastering that room. One was about £1000 and included the coving, the second was £300, but didn’t include coving. Mr Simple made an off-the-cuff remark about still saving money if he went with the cheaper quote, I then helped him with the coving and he took me out for a meal to our favourite restaurant. That was quite some time ago, but he stuck to his word and I got a free dinner.

We had our last Pilates class with our current teacher as due to changes in her job she is unable to get to us in time for a class. Through my physiotherapist I have managed to find another teacher and she will begin teaching us next week. One member of the class went to a taster session being run by the new teacher and said that it was different to our usual class and harder. Although change is difficult, I have been trying to look on the positive side. It’s amazing that we have found a new teacher who is willing to come to us and the price will remain the same. I will let you know how it goes.

Although we continued with the 5:2 diet, we had a break over Christmas and both gained 3lbs. We were back to it at the beginning of this week and will be fasting again tomorrow. I don’t have a goal for myself, as fortunately I am already a healthy weight, but my aim for Mr Simple is that he loses half a stone.

Packing a suitcase
There was quite a bit of travelling over Christmas

Over Christmas I had the whole week off and Mr Simple and I went to visit our parents, all of whom live in the East Midlands area of England. They all live close together and so we were able to spend time with both sets of parents. The journey back home was a slow one as Mr Simple’s father has given him an old trailer. He plans to use it to collect compost for the garden. There is a local company which processes the food waste collected by the council and residents can collect trailer-loads of compost free of charge. This should help us to make more progress with the garden.

So, let’s look at the figures…

Another good month on progress with the mortgage. The standard monthly payment was £511.91 and then we made an overpayment on the mortgage of £580. This leaves the balance on the mortgage standing at £72,391.23.

Savings are a grand total of £38,245.30. My Vanguard stocks and shares ISA made £77.59. I made investments of £1,253.84. The account that I use to pay for personal bills such as holidays and my car had money left over so I managed to put extra in on top of my usual savings.

Interest on Marcus account which I am using for stoozing was a grand total of £10.52.  

General spending

Food £105.80 – this was under budget due to several meals out which I had paid for last month. We were also away at our parents’ for almost a week so they were paying for the meals.  

Petrol £113.46- under budget as we were away for a week and I didn’t drive then as we went in Mr Simple’s car.

Pilates £16.00 – for various reasons two sessions didn’t go ahead and then it was Christmas.  

Toiletries £1.50 – only a very small amount spent this month on some moisturiser from Tesco.  

Social £20.00 – I didn’t go to the film in the village hall as it was a musical and I’m not a fan. The twenty pounds was spent on a meal in the local pub with neighbours and at which I won the hamper.  

Miscellaneous £88.34 – a very expensive month – £48.34 over budget. This included a couple of unexpected gifts e.g. a leaving present for our Pilates teacher and flowers for a colleague who turned 50. Mr Simple also spent money on bird food and renewed our membership of the Wildfowl and Wetlands Trust. I have allowed for the membership in my budget for 2020.

gifts wrapped in brown paper
I only have to buy presents for my two nephews

Expenses from bills account – expected annual/regular expenses

Physio session £32.00 – again only one session this month mainly due to ….you guessed it… Christmas.  

Gifts – £104.99 for Christmas presents for my nephews – the only ones that I have to buy so not a lot compared to other people’s spending.

So, there we have it, the last review of the year. How did your Christmas go? Hopefully you managed to have a break and feel rested. Thanks for reading and Happy New Year.

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2 Replies to “December Review”

  1. I’m with you on preferring lunchtime gatherings over dinner. I wish our families were more amenable to doing Christmas lunch rather than dinner. But it seems everyone feels it’s not really Christmas unless it’s celebrated in the evening!

    I do love Christmas and seeing our families, but it does come at a cost. My introvert batteries run quite low over the holidays, so I have to be very careful not to overbook ourselves. I can absolutely understand why it’s not your favourite time of year!

    I always enjoy your updates and look forward to more in 2020. All the best to you and Mr. Simple in the new year.

    1. Chrissy, lovely to hear from you. Hopefully like me you’ll now be able to get back to normal, whatever that is. Happy New Year to you and your family. Sam

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